Selena x Abel

Okay, hi. This is Maine Mendoza–the fangirl–speaking with you all. So a lot of you may have noticed that I keep on sharing my thoughts about Selena and Abel being together on my social media accounts. It actually started when Abel and Bella (Hadid) broke up, and then photos of Selena and Abel going out started circulating online. At first I thought they were just “friends” hanging out (yeah right), but when I saw a photo of Sel giving Abel a kiss on the cheek.. abel abel abel (aber aber aber), nabahala na ako. Yup, I am affected like that.

Some of you might know that I am a fan of Selena Gomez, while some of you might not know that I am also a fan of The Weeknd. (Yup, I like his sexy songs a lot) I love them as individuals and artists. But I’ll be honest with you, I cannot accept the fact that they are actually a couple. Ewan. Perhaps because I really liked Abel and Bella. I don’t know much about their relationship but I find them really really REALLY cute together. I have only seen photos of them on the internet, like this:

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I mean, let’s be honest.. aren’t they cute together? Gumo-#goals eh.

So ayun na nga, they broke up. (I wonder why.. Curious ako, lol.) Then there goes Abel and Selena.. I have seen so many photos of them spotted here and there– going out on trips, holding hands, giving each other kisses etc. Pero hindi ko talaga matanggap. Sinubukan ko naman eh! Not once..

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HEHE. But then MET gala happened.. ayun na, I knew Selena was going to upload a photo (oo close kami eh nabanggit niya sakin). Napacomment ako bigla, sabi ko.. “Okay sige cute na kayo ni Abel.. Unti-unti ko ng natatanggap” Totoo naman.. medyo nagiging cute na sila.. pero NO konti pa, hindi pa ako convinced.

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Until I saw these photos…

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Ay #$%&. Wala na. These four photos of them… Hay, okay na sige na. Tanggap ko naAaAaH!

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*sigh* Seeing Selena this happy makes my heart flutter. I might be against their relationship but damn if Abel makes Selena smile like that, then.. she must be really happy with him. I have to say this, my fangirl heart finally accepts #AbeLena. (I guess I’ll have to stop shipping Bela and Abel *sniffs*) At the end of the day, it’s still their lives and it’s clearly none of my business. They have the freedom to be happy with whoever they want to be with. And the best thing I/you could do as a fan is be happy for them. 🙂

Iba din talaga kapag hindi mo gusto yung isang tao para sa isang tao, pero wala kang magawa, kasi nakikita mo sakanya/sakanila yung ibang ngiti at saya. Yung tipong gugustuhin mo nalang din maging masaya para sa kaligayahan nilang dalawa. Ganun talaga eh, hindi naman natin alam yung nararamdaman nila para sa isa’t isa.. Eh bakit ba tayo nangingialam pa?

Anyway.. I hope you get to keep that lovely smile of yours, Selena. I love you both– individually… and sige, together na din. 🙂

#affectedmuch #endrant

24 Comment

  1. Honey says: Reply

    Nice one Meng. I hope na nakuha ng mga nkapaligid sau at sa mga nangingialam sa personal mong kaligayahan na dapat maging masaya sila kung san ka masaya. I hope all of them get your message. imbes pakialaman ka, support na lang ang also be happy for you. Kung masaya ka, masaya na rin kami para sau.

  2. Aries Indigo says: Reply

    double edge sword menggay!!
    two birds in one stone. hahaha..

  3. Nancy Jeannette says: Reply

    Ito talaga???✔✔✔
    And the best thing I/you could do as a fan is be happy for them. with whoever they want to be with. And the best thing I/you could do as a fan is be happy for them.
    Kung saan liligaya ang isang tao dapat suportahan na lang at maging masaya kung saan at kanino sya masaya?❤

  4. Hannah Angcos says: Reply

    Ang kyoot mo mag-fangirl Maine! Ganyan na ganyan din ako on you and shipping MaiChard. Kung saan masaya ang admired aritst mo eh doon ka. Ganyan na ganyan ako sa iyo Maine. I’m M-leaning to be honest but wherever/whatever you are happy with then I am behind your back. I can clearly see that when you are with RJ. Keep each other happy and keep God in the center of your relationship. 🙂

  5. Dayang says: Reply

    Meng, di mo ba naisip na baka ginagamit lng ni Abel si Selena, panakip butas bah?.. I mean it’s possible right? ?

  6. Issa says: Reply

    I think this one is for you. I’m happy kahit sino ang love mo as long as you’re happy our baby girl. I love you no matter what kahit $41M pa ang mag threat sa life ko I’m will ever be your fan. God bless Meng. Tita Issa

  7. Hi my dear ?
    I know about Selena and Abel but never really took the time to notice them as a couple if they’re ? but yeah those photos speak a lot…
    And who are we to judge or to make decisions for them…
    Aa a fangirl, all we would want is for our idols to be happy with whomever or whatever ?
    I hope that you’re happy too as always with you know ?
    Stay happy my dear and I hope your fans will understand what you werw indirectly trying to convey here ?
    Love and support who you love diba ?
    God bless you and Alden always!

  8. jakile says: Reply

    maghihiwalay din yan si Selena/Abel. Walang forever sa Hollywood Couples. LIke ko si Jennifer Lawrence and Nicholas Hoult pero hayun split pa rin

  9. Joyce Sierra says: Reply

    you’re an intelligent woman. you slay them, girl! ?

  10. Alelli says: Reply

    Cute lang… ?❤️????

  11. juno says: Reply

    Hi Maine,
    Minsan talaga tayong mga fangirling gustong magkatuluyan ang mga taong sa palagay naten ay bagay sa isat isa. Pero syempre hindi naten hawak ang puso at damdamin kaya madalas pag nasasaktan sila, MAS nasasaktan din tayong mga fans. Pasensiya ka na din kung minsan my mga fans na parang gustong diktahan ang buhay niyo ni Alden, PERO mas madaming MATURED AT MATALINO na fans ang ALDUB. Basta ang gusto lang namin maging maligaya kayo sa lahat ng ginagawa ninyo, Salamat, Salamat talaga sa pagbibigay ng ngiti sa amin sa bawat araw. Hindi niyo nman obligasyon yun pero ginagwa niyo para sa amin. Binigyan niyo ng KULAY ang araw namin, kaya parang kulang ang araw ko paghindi kayo nakikita o kung wala kayong update sa social media. Kaming ALDUB fan syempre gusto din namin kayo ni Alden magkatuluyan (kahit hindi niyo man aminin ramdam naman namin na mahal niyo ang isa’t isa) pero kahit ano man ang magiging desisyon niyo at mangyrai sa inyo sa huli. Andito pa din kami susuporta sa inyo, at hinding hinding magsasawa na mahalin kayo. KAHIT na katulad mong hirap din tanggapin ang paghihiwalay ng mga paborito mo, pipilitin din namin tanggapin (kung sakali man ) ang mga mangyayari sa hinaharap. PERO JUICE COLORED wag naman sana. (O, diba ngayon palang kahit isipin ko ang hirap) 🙂 Maraming salamat talaga sa pagbigay ng kaligayan sa araw araw. SANA, sana isang araw makita kita at mayakap kahit sandali lang, pag nangyari yun fangirling goals talaga. I dont know parang gusto lang kita yakapin at sabihan na SALAMAT. Si Alden nakita ko na ng malayuan pero sana, sana din balang araw makada-upang palad kayong dalawa. God bless you both & we love you!

  12. Lady dragon says: Reply

    Maine you are really a smart and very intellectual individual you were able to imply what you want your fans to do at this very intense situation regarding you and RJ’s teleserye DTBY with the story of Selena & Abel. Very clever moves Ms. Maine. It’s only showed that i’m following the right person in showbiz world you are one of a kind really really really you are. Love you Maine.

  13. BABSY says: Reply

    Kung saan ka masaya … teh suportahan ta ka!

    From the Philippines City of Love … ILOveILOve

  14. Di ko din yan matanggap nung una haha but glad to see that Selena is happy sa love life nya! Love this post Maine! 🙂

  15. Atleast happy siya 🙂

  16. nice one ?

  17. Jhoanna32@yahol.com says: Reply

    Dios lng tlga ang nakakaalam ng lahat pra satin at kung d man kau ni RJ ang magkatuluyan balang araw,kahit masakit tatanggapin namin sana lng tlga maging masaya kau lagi.ang dami nming nagdarasal para s inyo.tadhana n na ang bahala pra samin.God bless

  18. gizella says: Reply

    while reading this blog, i realized that you want to start telling na you and Alden are REEL and you and SEF are the REAL couple so even if majority of ALDUB fans cant take it, we still have to accept it? well choose a guy carefully? check his past relationship.

  19. ellen says: Reply

    Subtle message for fans na nakiki-alam sa buhay mo, sa buhay ni RJ, sa buhay ninyong dalawa. Sana maintindhan nila, ano? And I quote:

    “At the end of the day, it’s still their lives and it’s clearly none of my business. They have the freedom to be happy with whoever they want to be with. And the best thing I/you could do as a fan is be happy for them. ?

    Iba din talaga kapag hindi mo gusto yung isang tao para sa isang tao, pero wala kang magawa, kasi nakikita mo sakanya/sakanila yung ibang ngiti at saya. Yung tipong gugustuhin mo nalang din maging masaya para sa kaligayahan nilang dalawa. Ganun talaga eh, hindi naman natin alam yung nararamdaman nila para sa isa’t isa.. Eh bakit ba tayo nangingialam pa?

  20. Okay, hi. This is Ann Jerusalem–the fangirl–speaking with you Maine. I’m an AlDub/MaiChard/RJMeng fan.

  21. Angeli says: Reply

    Awaw!

  22. Arielle Joy Adela says: Reply

    Hi girl, go back to twitter. Alam mo bang ikaw ang dahilan why I’m into to it.

  23. anon says: Reply

    But your not Selena Gomez….

  24. Jane says: Reply

    Just be happy, Maine…Life is too short. If your lovelife is similar to these couples, I think most of your fans are mature enough to understand. Being true to what you feel is what makes your heart happy. Less expectations for me on your lovelife and will remain forever a fan of you and Alden.

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